Double Your Dating: Finding New Women In Your Everyday Life

In a rut where you’re in the same routine all the time and see the same people every day?

When you’re in a position like this it’s difficult to meet women, or at least new women. Believe it or not, there are a lot of great places to meet them. In fact, some of these places you already visit and just aren’t looking or thinking of them as good places to begin with. Here are several ideas; not all of them will be right for you, but some definitely will be.

Social Events


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Bars: Of course, everyone knows that a good place to meet women is in a bar, though there may be a few problems with this. If you’re looking for a party girl or a one-night stand, then a bar is a great place to start. Also be aware that some women may feel intimidated or on guard at a bar, so some women aren’t as approachable. Only those who are looking for a one-night stand or are shallow will be fairly easy to approach at a bar.

Clubs and Dances: Clubs are a little more relaxing than a bar, though you still have some of the same obstacles. You can actually spend a little more time getting to talk to a woman in a club rather than a bar. It may be a great icebreaker to ask a woman to dance. This is one advantage that a club gives you over a bar.

Speed Dating: Speed dating sounds lame, but it’s actually a lot of fun. It’s even better if a group of your friends go as well. You only have a few minutes with each woman and then one sex or the other moves around the room to each seat. The advantages to speed dating are that you get to meet a lot of women in the span of only a couple of hours and all of these women have a common interest in that they’re all looking to meet someone new.

Casinos: If you have an opportunity to go to a casino whether it be in Nevada, Atlantic City, Eastern Connecticut, or any of the many places where they have river boat gambling, this is a great place to meet women. It’s a fast and active social setting, so be prepared that these are mainly the types of women that you will be meeting. This is a great party scene, so if you’re looking for a quieter type of woman, this wouldn’t be a good place to search.

The Internet: On the internet, you can meet a lot of women in a short time span and you can even narrow down your search to what you’re looking for fairly easily. You can try social web sites such as and, but there are also numerous dating web sites. Some are free and some have a fee to use. Most web sites allow you to browse through search and filter out the ones that you already know aren’t going to be compatible for you. The only thing that you should be aware of is that you should be cautious, especially if you live with children. You don’t want to be too quick to give out a published phone number or your address.

Cookouts, Picnics, and Block Parties: These are wonderful events where both you and women will be in a relaxed setting. This is a setting where you can meet a woman without appearing threatening to her. All types of women attend cookouts and block parties, so it’s a great place for anyone. Block parties are especially good if you’re new to a neighborhood.

Family or Mutual Friends: You don’t want to always take your friends’ or family’s advice on dating, but this idea should never be disregarded. If you have a pushy friend that insists on setting you up and you don’t like it, tell them to back off. However, if an occasional friend or family member introduces you to someone, remember that they know both you and the woman and they may realize that the two of you are compatible.

Work: A lot of people have strict rules about dating people they work with. In general, it’s a good idea not to date a coworker. However, if you work for a large company with several departments, dating someone outside of your department would be acceptable. If it doesn’t work out, you can still avoid each other fairly easily.



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The thing that’s great about the places listed below is that everyone needs to do these things, so you will definitely find women here. Their guard will be down because they’re performing every day tasks, as you are.

Grocery Store: Since everyone eats, everyone must shop for food, so you’ll find tons of women in the grocery store. Beware that during the day Monday through Friday you will find mainly elderly women and housewives, so this wouldn’t be a good time to go. However, in the evenings after work or on the weekends are peak time for single women. Sometimes you can get a good idea by looking at the items in her cart to see whether she’s single or not. For instance, if her cart is overflowing, she probably has a family. Also, pay attention to things in her cart such as toiletries. If she has men’s shaving cream or deodorant in her cart, it’s an indication that she’s not single.

Gas Station: The gas station is also a great place to meet women. Some women, even in today’s day and age still don’t know how to pump gas. If you see a woman that looks a little perplexed, offer to help her. Also, with the price of gas these days, you have an icebreaker even with women that do know how to pump their own gas.

Bank: Bank lines appear to be the longest on Saturdays, so if you have some banking to do, try to set aside some time on Saturday. It will take you longer to get your banking done, but you’ll have time to possibly talk to some women while you’re waiting.

Laundromat: If you go to the laundromat at any given time, you will most likely find more women than men and you’ll find all different types of women – except for the wealthy, of course. Whether you’re looking for an older woman, a college student, a quiet girl, or a party girl, they all have to clean their clothes. I would suggest even if you have your own washer and dryer to do your clothes at the laundromat every once in a while.



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College: If you’re a full time college student, then you have it made! There are tons of women around campus. However, if you’re working full time and want to go back to school for a degree or a higher degree and you have the time, don’t enroll in an online course. Go to your local college and enroll. If you’re over the normal age for a college student, you’ll find that there are a quite a few people in your same predicament taking classes in the evening. This is a great place to meet goal oriented women. If you’re in the same class, then you already have some common ground and conversation shouldn’t be difficult at all. You can also ask her (or them) if they’d like to form a study group.

Adult Education/ Continuing Education Class: These types of classes aren’t for college credit, but are more for self-interest or self-improvement. Some employers will request individuals to take a class in this category or you just may be interested in doing this on your own. They offer tons of subjects such as computers, astronomy, painting, pottery, languages, etc. You should have no trouble finding women in practically any continuing education class. However, if you take a class such a cake decorating, you’re sure to have more women than men in the class.

Seminars/ Workshops: Sometimes, employers will request that certain employees attend workshops; however, there are some you can attend on your own, especially dealing with business. Look in your local newspaper and you’ll periodically find advertisements for small business or investment seminars. This is a great place to meet goal-oriented women.

Churches, Charities, and Meetings


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Charity Groups or Functions: If you like to help the community, join a charitable organization or volunteer at a soup kitchen or nursing home and you’ll find women volunteers. The type of women you’ll find in this type of environment are very nurturing and caring. They are most likely friendly, but not necessarily the life of the party and they most likely are also responsible and career driven.

Churches/ Bibles Studies: A lot of people don’t consider a church a good pickup spot for women. If you’re looking for a relationship, then church is a great pickup place. You’ll mostly find women that are kind and spiritual. You may find single women or even single mothers at church. If you’re interested in church and religion, join a bible study at your church and you’ll find other women that have the same interest. Also, if you love children, volunteer to help with the youth group of your church. You will meet other volunteers that are women and also will have something to talk about with any single mothers that may interest you.

PTA/ School Events: Obviously, if you’re not a single parent, this idea is no good for you. However, if you have children, join the PTA and get involved as much as you can. Go to as many meetings and functions as you can. This gives you a great opportunity to meet single moms.

Books and Culture


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Library: This is a great place to find a nice woman with a thirst for knowledge. You probably won’t find any party girls in here, but instead will find the quiet secluded types. If you like to read, go to the library and browse through your favorite sections, but take a little longer than normal and browse at more than just the book titles.

Bookstore: The bookstore has the same basic concept as the library. At some bookstores, they even have a coffee shop so you can read and have a cup of coffee. This gives it more of a social atmosphere.

Festivals and Craft Shows: Some towns have cultural festivals where there is food, music, and sometimes art. Also, look for other cultural events such as pow-wows that are open to the public. If you’re interested in cultural events, it’s a great way to meet women that are also interested. A lot of these events take place in the spring, summer, and early fall. These are also fun events where a lot of women are in their element, are relaxed, and already having a great time.

Zoo: If you’re an animal lover, visit the zoo once in a while. You may find women there that also love animals. Also, if you have a child, niece, or nephew offer to take them to the zoo. We all know how women love small children. This will help to break the ice and make you more approachable.

Museums: You may think museums are a bore. Perhaps you like museums. Either way, there are a few things to consider. First, a lot of women hang out in museums. However, it’s a cultured type of woman that usually likes museums. Secondly, look on the internet or in the newspaper. There are more types of museums other than what you would traditionally know. There may be houses of some of the people in history or even nature museums. It’s worth a look to see what’s in your area.

Art Gallery: An art gallery is only a good place to meet women if you’re into art. If you’re not, you will only be bored, won’t find the type of woman you would want to meet, and would probably make a fool of yourself if you tried to approach someone. However, if you like art or think you might be, go to a local art gallery. They’re loaded with women.

Fireworks: As you should know, Independence Day fireworks have tons of women. The single ones usually hang out in groups, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing either. Also, you might find some single moms. Also, sometimes towns or cities may have fireworks for other occasions besides Independence Day, so check your local newspaper.

Holiday/ Event Parades: Parades are also a nice fun spot to meet women. It’s a celebratory occasion and everyone’s already in a great mood. Most towns have parades for Independence Day or Memorial Day. Also, look in your newspaper periodically because some towns even have parades for special events such as the opening day for Little League Baseball.



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Mall: Everyone knows that women like to shop and because they like to shop, they love to hang out at malls. You can find women by themselves or with friends, but it’s a great place to walk around and meet women.

Department Store: This is on the same premise that women love to shop. However, if you’re in a department store, you have an icebreaker. Go to a department store to purchase a gift for your mother or sister and hang out in the women’s apparel section. There, you can ask a woman for advice.

Bargain Stores: Though women love to shop and love to spend money, they also love bargains. Bargain stores such as Marshalls have lots of women. You won’t get so much of your trendy women who are extremely materialistic at these bargain stores. So, if you don’t like materialistic women, Wal-Mart is a pretty good place to do your “shopping”.

Flea Markets/ Yard Sales: Again, this is a place where you will find bargain hunting women. Flea markets and yard sales are more of a social place than a bargain store and the items sold can sometimes be interesting. You may be able to strike up a conversation based on that.

Antique Shop: A lot of women are into antiques. If you’re also interested in antiques, go to an antique shop once in a while to see what else may be hanging out in the antique shop.

Jewelry Store: Of course, all women love jewelry, so it only makes sense that you would find a lot of them in a jewelry store. If you are knowledgeable or can become somewhat knowledgeable on jewelry, you may be able to impress some women in a jewelry store.

Craft/ Fabric Store: A lot of women are into crafts, so it would stand to reason that they would shop in craft stores for supplies. If you’re not interested in crafts, you would be bored in an environment like this, so it may not be a good place for you. However, if you dabble in some crafts such as painting, roam around the craft store to see what else they have in stock.

Flower Shops/ Nurseries: Most women love flowers and plants, so you will see a lot of them in flower shops and nurseries. If you have any knowledge of plants or flowers, you can impress them with your knowledge. If you don’t you may want to try asking a woman a couple of questions.

Health and Sports


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Health Food Store: If you like health food, then this is also a great place to meet women. If you’re a junk food junkie, women will see through this and won’t be interested. However, if you’re on a path to a healthier you and have just started, you can break the ice by asking a woman questions.

Spa/ Gym: If you’re a fan of the gym already, you’re already aware that this is a great place to meet women. However, if you work out at home, you may want to reconsider and starting using the gym.

Sports: Local bowling alleys, ice skating rinks, and roller skating rinks are great places to meet women. Also, check in your area to see if there are any coed sports offered at a recreation center such as swimming, softball, or volleyball. If you’re interested in any of these, you can meet women that are interested in the same types of things.

Sporting Events: There are just as many women as men that are into sports such as football, baseball, basketball, and hockey. So, if you go to a game, be on the lookout for women that may be single. Also, if you’re a fan of tailgate parties before, during, or after sporting events, this can also be a great place to meet women.

Food and Fun

Amusement Park/ Carnival: Everyone loves amusement parks and carnivals. People go there to relax and have a great time. In fact, there is something magical about those places that make it really easy to meet and converse with women.

Restaurants: In the evenings, restaurants aren’t a good place to meet women because the women you see usually have a man with them. However, during the day for lunch, they go to lunch on their lunch break from work just as you do. So, this is a great place to try to strike up a conversation.

The Great Outdoors


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Playgrounds: If you love kids or have children, this is a great place to meet single moms. However, be sure that you have a child with you or you’ll look like a stalker or pedophile.

Public Parks: Parks are a great place to meet women. You can go to a state park and walk the trails or take a bicycle or just feed the ducks if there is a pond. Also, if there is a local park or tail near where you work, go out on nice weather days and eat in the park or go for a walk. Women that you meet here will be relaxed and love exercise and nature.

Beach: The fact that the beach is a great place to meet women should go without saying. First of all, women like to try to impress men with the type of bathing suit they’re wearing. Also, women find beaches romantic, so striking up a conversation shouldn’t be too difficult because they’ll most likely be amiable.

Pool: A pool is sort of like the beach, but more of an intimate setting. Usually you must have some sort of membership to swim at a pool, so at that point, you and the women you find there already belong to the “same group”, so they will automatically feel that connection.


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Cars and Transportation

Bus Stop/ Commuter Train: If you work in a large city, you may take a bus, subway, or commuter train. In this case, you will see relatively the same people every day. This gives you days, weeks, or even months to get to know women that are on the same route as you.

Department of Motor Vehicles: We all know how painfully long the wait is at the Department of Motor Vehicles and it’s an unfortunate evil that we all must endure once in a while. So, this is a prime spot to meet women. One thing is for sure. You will have plenty of time to talk to them because they’re not going anywhere for a while.

Car Show/ Racecar Track: Believe it or not, more and more women each year attend car shows and go to racing tracks. NASCAR and other racing circuits are becoming popular for women as well as men. If you’re into racing or just cars in general, you will already share an interest with the women you see at these events.

Out of all of these ideas, I’m sure you have a few more ideas about where to look for women. You really shouldn’t even have to rearrange your schedule or do anything different to meet women. You just have to look. However, there are some ideas in this article that would require to change or add activities. As long as you enjoy yourself, you won’t go wrong. Good luck and happy hunting.

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  2. Agent Double LL 7 says:

    I have been living in CT for 20 years and I havent met any people in any of these areas. Some other suggestions please – CT seems to be very unfriendly and snobby. HELP!!!!!

  3. Dating is a fascinating subject for me. Good insight here…